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Do you think your birth order affected you? Do you think your partner's birth order affected them? How so?
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No.
And, I have super eldest child syndrome.... among other things.
Were both only children. My sister is not a human. She is the spawn of Lucifer.
may be yes may be no.
Not sure. I think him growing up alone affected him where as I has siblings to grow up with.
I'm a middle out of 3 (older sis, younger bro), he's a younger out of 2 (older sis). I've always felt like a mistake b/c my parents wanted a boy. He was overshadowed by his bossy sister. I think we're both pretty introverted b/c of it.
No, I just don't mind. Yes, she thinks having a boy friend younger than her makes herself feel old
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I have no idea!
Yes. Yes. I crave attention and she doesn't like to be told what to do.
Yes being oldest has made me more organized and mature. Him being the only child has made him always the center of attention and spoiled
I know my birth order affected me. Middle Child Syndrome for sure. I don't think it affected my wife though.
Yeah, we're both the youngest so we're used to getting hand-me-downs & what-not.
I was a 1st child but into a mixed household so a bit confusing to define where i am/was in the order of things. He was born last, but siblings much older so he felt like only child & felt a bit alone.
Yes and yes. I think because we are both "first born" we both like to be in control and we want things to always go "our way" and it is hard to compromise sometimes. When you grow up the oldest, you always think you are right...and that shouldn't be the case in your relationship.
