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Do you think your birth order affected you? Do you think your partner's birth order affected them? How so?
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We're both the oldest so we share common views about our siblings.
I'm an only child, so it didn't affect me in that sense. However, I'm the oldest cousin-wise on my dads side and the youngest on my moms. My moms side treated me horrible growing up, being the baby. I made it a point to be like a big sister to my younger ones and we are very close still. I think with him being born as the eldest he has definitely been the one to be protective and it still shows in his mid twenties. I like it.
Yes I was the youngest and my older sister babysit me all the time . She bossed me around and I had to listen or else.
I am sure my birth order effect of me. As an adult I am able to overcome any of the negative's related to my birth order and accentuate positives.
No cuz it docent really matter when ur birthday is
Yes but in a good way. I'm glad I'm the oldest rather then the middle or baby.
We are both the only child & he's spoiled rotten! LMAOOO
It did to me and to her... The way we were raised made us the way we are now...
Me: being shy and not open to people
Her: being LOUD just to call attention!
We love each other! 😁
Me: being shy and not open to people
Her: being LOUD just to call attention!
We love each other! 😁
We were both only children.
Sure I was an only child and selfish and self centered until we adopted my sister when I was 15 and learned how to love someone other than myself....my hubbs he was middle but more like the oldest he the oldest male and the leader of the family now the sibs look up to him he is a good son and brother the takes good care of them all.
I'm an only child, but I think my partner learned from his siblings mistakes, which Is good
Yes for sure
It definitely affected us! I'm the youngest of 4 and I have always been the more spoiled one and the louder one. As to him, he's the middle one and is often taking care of his little brother. So when he tells me that he has to babysit I don't understand lol I'm like huh?? Why?? Haha I don't understand the role of an older brother. All I know is to be the annoying little sister :)
Yup I was a middle child always ignored always sad n alone
Yes.
She is the oldest child....
I am the youngest child...
So is our marriage...
She is the oldest child....
I am the youngest child...
So is our marriage...
