Icebreakers
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Has your partner ever criticized you in front of other people?
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Have you spent a holiday with your partner's family? If so, how was it?
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Do you think your birth order affected you? Do you think your partner's birth order affected them? How so?
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We are both first born and a lil spoiled
No
I think being the oldest of my blood sisters made me more outspoken and being in the middle of my step brother and sisters made me stronger cuz I had to stick up for myself and the younger ones. Him being the youngest made him more reserved and shy. We balance each other well.
I am the oldest so I got blamed for everything. I don't think his affects him
Yes! Very much so! And I believe it did a number on her as well.
He's an only child i have siblings so we definitely have different approaches to almost everything.
Probably. He was born in the era where you need to do things to prove that you are "cool anarchist"
Me, I was born around that but it was ok to be yourself. Idk lol
Me, I was born around that but it was ok to be yourself. Idk lol
No I'm the oldest & so is he
Possibly I guess
yep. idk how.
No I do not
We're both the youngest and spoiled but family situations made us familiar with sacrifice
Yes I am an only child. It affects my life a lot.
We're both first borns. We got screwed by our parents experimental rearing techniques, and suffer with a spoiled sibling. As well we are both military brats. So we're very worldly and opinionated. Thankfully, we agree on the major topics.
Definitely. Being the older child has jaded me so much that my future mothering skills are going to be so finely tuned that one misstep and I'll commit seppuku.
