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Do you believe in fate, or do you believe you create your own destiny?


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I believe a little of both. Cut the destiny part out and allow fate to guide the way.


I believe in fat. But what you're 'destined' to, you need to work on it.


What my husband said


A little of both.


I believe in timing.


A bit if both


Both, but I think we hold and create our own destiny for the most part - if you drift then fate takes over, so you can control destiny if you believe you can effect you own...........


Both actually. I think it was pure fate that I met my partner. So many things had to happen in the right order, at the right time, for us to have met, and for me to have had the guts to invite him out/meet him and not actually bail/stand him up; to me that was fate. We've chosen our destiny in how our relationship has played out over time, but fate had to step in to get us to finally meet. It's weird because I had met my first college roommate, who happened to be the only person I knew from his


Both. I believe God's grace/fate was involved in meeting my wife. Had I not known Chris, I wouldn't have joined that coed fraternity, met this beautiful woman, become friends, and fallen in love. I'm sure fate/grace played in her moving back to that college, be in THAT fraternity, allowing us to meet. But, I believe it's the decisions we make that help fate/grace along. My decisions led to joining the frat, let my heart find hers, and ask for her hand. Thank you Grace, Fate, and good decisions!


I believe in both. I believe God has a plan already designed but He allows u the chance to change the direction towards a plan b he already has for u
You create your own destiny you have the choice to choose how you want your life to be. Fate can bring you that opportunity but you pick the path i.e. your destiny
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Dec 10, 2012

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Both


I believe in both. With creating our own destiny we make decisions every day and who knows if one of those decisions could have changed everything! And with fate, everything lies in fate. No matter what path you take, there will always be something that was meant to be.


Fate GOD brings people in your life for a reason think about what you had and have


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