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Do you believe in fate, or do you believe you create your own destiny?
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I believe in fate to be honest.
Interesting.. I believe we are completely responsible for our lives and all that happens because it's all about learning and your soul development. But I'd be completely in ego to say I made meeting my gf happen all on my own. We state a desire line up our energy and the universe will orchestrate the rest..
Both, fate brought me to him but I planed so that he added me on msn.. Without my clever plan we wouldn't be here holding hands
Both. I believe it was fate that I met him. It's obvious he was brought to me for a reason, but him and I created our relationship on our own.
I think both... I think things happen for a reason but it's also how you act on life to get that certain result
I believe in fate
Both. Even tho it was Fate that brought me and my fiancée together, I made my own destiny by adding her on Facebook and started talking to her.
Wow this will serve as a great justification for any of my horoscope/ astrology app ideas. Maybe I should bookmark this page the next time some tech guy tells me I don't know what I'm talking about. =D
I like to believe
I believe in both. I believe it was fate that he and I were sat next to each other in high school but I believe the rest has been because of us.
Create your own destiny
No I think you are what you create.
I believe in both, people are destined to be together, but it's up to us to forge our way into it
Both...I believe that if something good happens out of the blue then it must be fate but if you are working toward something then you are working towards a DESTINATION...thus your destiny! I believe that meeting my wife was fate and now we are working towards our destiny together.
A little bit of both.
