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Do you believe in fate, or do you believe you create your own destiny?
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I believe in fate. I met my fiancee totally by accident, so something must have brought us together.
Nothing is predetermined, nothing is fully under your control.
I believe in fate. :)
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 14, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 14, 2011
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I believe that people create their own destinies. However, because we *all* create our own destinies by shaping ourselves as well as the world around us, we end up shaping other peoples' lives too. Therefore, our destiny is the product of what we do and what the people in our lives do to us. That said, I think the most important thing is self-confidence, which helps us see a way out when things get tough and also discern when "fate" is throwing us something better than what we can do on our own.
We create our destiny!
I trust in fate, but I work hard to create opportunities.
We create our own destiny whether it was by default or deliberately.
How is there an answer to this----some of both---and what God wants
little bit of both.
I believe in fate and opportunities that when given, you have to seize to help to create your own destiny
I believe that that fate can slap you in the face and I also believe we create what can happen to us in the future.
Create my own destiny.
Both in a way, some things seem too coincidental to be done by myself.
A bit of both. We also create our own futures and destinies.
What about half way, karma/fate presents you with opportunities but you have to seize them, be prepared for them or sometimes just accept them.
both