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Do you tend to see things as black and white, or as shades of gray?
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Shades of gray! There's always something there if you look outside the box.
Shades of Grey
Always shades of gray, though I'm not sure there are 50.
Shades if grey, I have a very open mind
Shades of gray
Shades of gray in this jacked up world.
Sometimes both. Used to be black and white, then gray. Now I'm realizing sometimes the whole flipping thing is in colour and you'll never figure out what's best haha
Dark and light
I see them in gray. Perhaps in more than fifty shades.. oh ho ho ho. Kill me.
Black n white I'm working on it
Things are rarely black/white, so I guess shades of gray and depending on person, situation, setting it can be black/white
Grey! There are always exceptions
Daily life is mostly gray. However, the important/big things are mostly black and white.
I get tunnel visions, and I fixate and determine something either is or isn't what I believe. There are things I need to work on, I know that but it's hard when everything gets piled on me, but I do try.
Shades of grey. There is no absolute I every situation, there are many sides and different viewpoints to consider.
