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Do you tend to see things as black and white, or as shades of gray?
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shades of gray
Black and white
Gray. Everything has two sides
Shades
Shades of grey
Shades of gray. Really... Tons of colors.
for me she must treat me in shades of grey but i treat my wife with double standards and expect life in black and white
Everything has been so black for me recently. I wish I could say its not, but it drags everything down til I can't see any light or white or even grey. I'm sorry my depression is so consuming.
Female, 41-50 years, Married | May 24, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Married | May 24, 2012
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A little of both.
Shades of grey, for sure!!
50? :)
Female, >50 years, Married, WI, US | May 19, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, WI, US | May 19, 2012
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I wish I could see things in Black and White....but I see all sorts of gray. =(
Shades of grey
Shades of gray. Nothing is ever cut and dry, not in a relationship or life in general.
Shades of gray-- there's never a clear cut answer for some issues.
Gray
Both
Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, JAL, MX | May 26, 2012