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Do you tend to see things as black and white, or as shades of gray?
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It depends on the situation, but mostly shades of gray. There can be a right and wrong answer, but most often, each situation has to be taken on its own merits.
Shades of gray
Shade of grey
Black and white
The one-dimensional line of white-grey-black is often not sufficient to describe the world. The same event will, from different perspectives, have "different shades of grey", so why not put different colors for the different perspectives? It gives a more messy picture, but in full color!
Gray
Gray
Black n white. I'm extreme.
Ya think?
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, NY, US | Mar 05, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, NY, US | Mar 05, 2012
You're being sarcastic?!
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, NY, US | Mar 05, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, NY, US | Mar 05, 2012
Lol a bit
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, NY, US | Mar 05, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, NY, US | Mar 05, 2012
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Plain black and white tell it how it is no beating around the bush
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Male, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Mar 02, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Mar 02, 2012
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Male, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Mar 02, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Mar 02, 2012
I see things in black & white, straight up & down no mucking around! There is no space for just sitting on the fence!
Female, >50 years, Married, NZ | Mar 07, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, NZ | Mar 07, 2012
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I see things in black and white.... He sees things in shades of gray. Nothing is definite with him
Depends on the situation. Most of the time black and white
As a lawyer, there are always shades of gray. Unfortunately, he sees all in black and white.
Grey
Gray
Lots of grey
