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Icebreakers
Find out what's on your partner's mind, share what's on yours, and get insights from other couples. We ask what you might not think to.
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How old were you the first time you had sex?
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![Male, 36-40 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
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![Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
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![Female, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
17, on Oct 17, 1997. I may have valued my virginity a bit too much back then, but I fully blame the church for that. They pumped up the "True Love Waits" idea so much and often that when I did have sex, I honestly felt like I just ruined my relationship with God, my parents, my future spouse, even my future children. Thank you, honey, for showing me my virginity wasn't what made me spouse material or worth being loved; and teaching me that God is about forgiveness and grace.
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
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![Male, 26-30 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Why the hell this question would be something to share with my wife?
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Probably about 30 XD
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, NC, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
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![Male, >50 years, Married, Gay, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Old enough to have fun!
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Young
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
18
![Female, 41-50 years, Married, FL, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
none of your business.
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CT, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
18. I wasn't planning on it happening. I wish things had worked out differently and I was a little bit older.
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
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![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
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