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Are you a saver or a spender? How about your partner?
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![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I am a saver😉 lol yeah right!
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Uitgever en deels spaar.. Ik wil t heel graag maar kom niet uit en maak verkeerde beslissingen. Hij is een uitgeven maar heeft ZAT
![Female, >50 years, Dating, ENG, GB](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
pretty much both savers, I would say. The odd small treat but no regular splurges.
![Female, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
uitgevers hoewel ons beroep anders doet vermoeden :-)
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
It all depends on what it's for if its for my kids or her i spend if it just for me not really
![Male, 36-40 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Both
![Female, 36-40 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I agree. You are financially responsible and are saving enough while having a good time too. It's a good balance and you work hard for that luxury. I'm definitely more of a saver, but my favorite thing to splurge on isn't handbags, I swear (though judging from track record you wouldn't know it).
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, IL, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
So what is your favorite thing to splurge on (if not bags :) )?
Male, 41-50 years, Married, IL, US | Sep 24, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, IL, US | Sep 24, 2013
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![Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Was a major spender now I like to save unless depressed. She was the saver and now she's the spender lol
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I save to spent. :)
![Female, 41-50 years, Married, SC, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Both spenders
![Male, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I'm more of a saver. Actaully always have been and spend more for the others than I do for myself at times, but mostly I spend when I'm with friends, because It's always like "Anoither drink" "Oh you don't have money for a taxi? Let me cover it" "the Beer's on me!" :D
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I'm the spender and she is the saver! I can't save very good lol but I sure can spend it
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I'm both depending on the situation at hand
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I don't waste a lot of money, I prefer to save money when possible, but sometimes I just forget about everything and waste lots of money for things I don't need actually and the I feel sorry :DD
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, DC, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Spender... :( I think that she's a saver. :)