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Icebreakers
Find out what's on your partner's mind, share what's on yours, and get insights from other couples. We ask what you might not think to.
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![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Both at the same damn time
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I'm a spender he is a saver
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Saver I am a saver my baby is a spender
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I'm a saver and she is too but we both splurge sometimes.
![Female, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We both spend...we are working on the saving part
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We both save and splurge when appropriate, IMO.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Spender
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I like to save. But I am definitely a spender!
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating, HI, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I am both too!! But I think I'm a little bit more of a saver than you :p
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, HI, US | Jan 16, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, HI, US | Jan 16, 2013
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Yeah you prob are.
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Jan 16, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Jan 16, 2013
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![Male, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
We both try our best to save but times are tight.
![Female, 26-30 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We are both spenders.
![Male, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I'm a justifier. She's a saver
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Chi is so much better at saving than me.
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
We are both spenders, but if one of us had to be, i am the saver.
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, Bi, WA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I'm a spender lol
![Male, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Spender but gonna try to be a saver this year
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Jan 12, 2013