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Who in your relationship is more likely to make the big decisions?
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![Male, >50 years, Dating, SC, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Well that's a very intriguing question for us. We both have made some seriously big decisions and there are more to come but we both share equally tough and big decisions on our own level
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
We make the decitions together, so... she :)
![Female, >50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I think we are really good at making big decisions together- discussing things and arriving at a consensus.
![Male, >50 years, Married, NJ, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Me
![Male, 26-30 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Depends on the decision.
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
He does. But if I have something to say he always listen (:
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
60/50 I'm the 60 😝
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating, Gay, NJ, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I think me? What you think babe?
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Me lol, because that's how she likes it. But if she does speak up I always listen :)
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, UT, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Ha me I guess with her direction!
![Male, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
She makes the big decisions I just decide whether or not to listen or get killed if I don't. So of course she makes them lol
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Lol usually me. I'm very spoiled and selfish and like for everything to be or go my way so yes, usually me. But I try to let him have some say in things and ask for his opinion on it sometimes.
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Nov 03, 2014
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Nov 03, 2014
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![Female, 26-30 years, Dating, Gay, NJ, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Idk I think either one of us, maybe both of making the decisions together
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, WA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Me:-)
![Female, 26-30 years, Married, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Hmmm. I don't think we've had the chance to make a really big decision together just yet, but I think we're the kind of couple that talks things through and decides together.
![Female, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Probably me