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Icebreakers
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Who in your relationship is more likely to make the big decisions?
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![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Me.
![Female, >50 years, Married, Gay, IA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Her
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Mmmm I think it would depend on the scenario and who it applied more to
![Female, >50 years, Married, Gay, IA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Her
![Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I think we both make them equally. She is in charge of the finances, but we make most decisions together
![Female, >50 years, Married, TX, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
me.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
My partner :) he's dominant
![Female, >50 years, Domestically Partnered, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Probably me but we both weigh in
![Female, >50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Me. And he won't tell me how he feels so it's harder
![Male, 41-50 years, Dating, OH, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
She said it best I am her strong Alpha and have a lot more life experience but it works out well for both of us
![Male, >50 years, Married, VA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
It's kindof a tossup here. We both make big decisions, but I'd say in recent years it has been my wife.
![Female, 36-40 years, Married, MO, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Me
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
One of us making a decision period would be a surprise. A big one we might have to phone a friend.
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Me. No doubt.
![Male, >50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Depends on the decision.