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Icebreakers
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If you could change one thing about your partner, what would it be?
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![Male, >50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Trust or believe. I really don't think my wonderful wife has ever had anyone that she could trust and I have broke her trust some to but I have never let her down and my love is deep rooted but she still can't believe in me.
![Male, >50 years, Married, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
In the past I could make an exstensive list but today I wouldn't change a thing about her... the love of my life
![Female, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
He has changed dramatically and I couldn't be more proud of him, but I love for him to change jobs. :)
![Male, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Dumb... Get some new questions.
![Male, >50 years, Married, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Nothing really
![Male, >50 years, Married, FL, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
In my eyes there is nothing to change, but I would like her to see her as I see her (and all the rest of us) and not be negative and point out her flaws when we tell her how beautiful she is. You got it, flaunt it, screw the women that give you the stink eye!
![Female, >50 years, Domestically Partnered, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
She would stop smoking so we can enjoy a long life together.
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, TN, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I wouldn't change anything per se about him because I fell in love with him as a whole, the good outweighs the bad (snoring...J/K)
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, ID, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I would change his negative view of the past. There are some things you can change, and the things we can't change, we have to change the way we think about them.
![Female, <20 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
give him a better vision. make him see that we are meant to be together and make him feel how sorry I am for ever hurting him.
![Female, 36-40 years, Married, Bi](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
His view of himself. Sometimes he just will not recognize how good he is and doesn't cut himself enough slack.
![Female, >50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I am enjoying the man he is becoming now so right now I would say nothing!
![Female, >50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
His inability to trust and forgive. We can all find fault if we continue to look for it but that doesn't help grow anything positive
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Absolutely nothing!! I love the way he bites his nails even though it is clearly my pet peeve... I still love everything about him and if he didn't do it and I didn't tell him to stop, then well our relationship would be boring
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
his insecurities