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Are you a saver or a spender? How about your partner?
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I'm more saver, he's more spender.
Used to be a spender, but now a saver
i'm definitely a saver. not sure about him.
I'm the saver he's more the spender but he thinks about it first, not long though!
I used to be the saver, now I'm the spender, but he is too!
We are learning to be savers!
I'm the spender and u do need to work on that. He's the saver
I'm the saver and she is definitely the spender.
Saver and he is a spender badly:/
I'm more of a spender while my wife is more of the saver. I'm trying to be more fiscally responsible like she is, but it's a never-ending battle.
I'm a spender. He's a saver.
that's about right :)
Male, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, NY, US | Jan 12, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, NY, US | Jan 12, 2012
Most of the time. Sometimes you're willing to spend on weird stuff.
Female, 36-40 years, Domestically Partnered, NY, US | Jan 12, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Domestically Partnered, NY, US | Jan 12, 2012
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In my life I've definitely been more of a spender... But recently I've been getting really into saving. She's definitely a saver more than a spender too. Fortunately, we tend to balance each other out well.
I like to buy quality goods, but not very often. She likes to buy cheap stuff all the time. I’d say it either evens out, or she spends more. Probably the latter.
Spender. Learning and trying to be saver. My spouse is definitely not a saver but I won't say he's a spender. I'm the spender.
I'm horrible with money!! I shouldn't be allowed access to my own bank/credit cards!!
