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Over the past 5 years, how do you think you have changed, for better and worse?
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A lot. Religion, appearance, friends, goals in life. But I still want to be a therapist, and to save the world. That will never change.
Worst my trust for ppl
There's been so much more stress in my life. Not because of my wife but mean hurtful shit from my ex, my family and my friends. I also think I have learned how to open my mouth when it's needed. Steph may disagree.. I'm still not perfect but I'm trying
Being better organized, believing in myself and the work that I can do. I owe that all to my beautiful wife.
For better. Thanks to a special someone
I have grown up more, found who I am, found my partner and learned a lot
I always amazed at how Ive developed. 5 years ago I was just as sweet as I am now, I was striving to be a good person like now but idk, I just get more "me" with each passing year. And "me" is a fundamentally decent, sweet & genuinely good human. I give less of a crap about others opinions - Im just fine so keep your "concerns" or your "advice" to yourself unless I ask - that kind of thing.
But not you tiger! I ALWAYS want to hear your concerns or advice. I just meant like even the people who love me, Ive learnt that they ultimately have hell & ice water issues & half the time they aren't self aware enough to even realise it. They want me to be the same person I was years ago & its incredibly unhealthy in the long run. I dont love them any less, its sweet that they care, but they dont know whats best for me. (sorry for the long-ass answer!)
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, VIC, AU | Jan 24, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, VIC, AU | Jan 24, 2013
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Hasn't been that long
I'm def more mature, motherly type now as I have to be and have a crapload of patience
Better definitely!
I think I have grown up and finally turned into a man bc any guy can be a father but it takes a kind, loving, patient, and driven man to be a dad
More aware and knowledgeable, but less car free and positive.
I've got better at decision making kinda
It's been a very rough five years. However the upswing is amazing.
