Icebreakers
Find out what's on your partner's mind, share what's on yours, and get insights from other couples. We ask what you might not think to.
Have a suggestion for an Icebreaker?
Submit it here.
Related Icebreakers
When you first met your partner, what was it that made you want more?
What's something you talk about that you think bores your partner?
What turns you on about your partner?
What's something your partner's really good at?
What makes the best present: something useful, or a big surprise?
+ 10
Is it better to have loved and lost or never to have loved at all? Why?
Ask your friends
Copy link
Answered by 
I think never to have loved at all is better. I wouldn't wish the pain of a heartbreak on anyone.
Yes. Better to have loved and lost. Life is full of experiences and emotional connections. You love and you take the risk. Go in it fully. Any outcome (beyond violence) is an experience. Love is wonderful, it should be experienced and shared.
That's a dumb question
Loved and lost. I think you learn something new from every relationship.
Hmmm that's a tough one I've love and lost and it's painful but a good learning experience and when I didn't think I could love again I was surprised
It probably depends on how you lose the person. If it is a nasty break up amd a person is dumped by the love of their life, then honestly it isn't better. If it is a loss of a happy relationship through death, as is the inevitable outcome of every happy marriage, than it is better to have loved. All good things must come to an end. That doesn't make it any easier, though.
Loved and lost, it gives you perspective.
It's better to have loved…loving makes me a better person and a better contributor to this world.
haber amado y perdido el porque por vivir y sentir
It is better to have loved. There is nothing else that makes the human experience as worth living as love.
Loved and lost. Because being in love (as I am for the first time in my life) is the most glorious feeling. Better enjoy that for the time you can than to never experience it at all.
I'm not so sure and then again it is better to love because love is like the greatest thing ever in life, just ask our lord and savior Jesus Christ and is Father 😊
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 26, 2015
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 26, 2015
Sign in to add a comment.
Loved and lost. If you've never loved, how do you know true love and other emotions. It doesn't have to be a romantic love, just a relationship of love and lose. It makes us feel and understand ourselves.
I think is better to have loved and experience that love than to wonder what could have been. Go all in and take a risk. I am the epitome of the risk taker.
That's difficult cause the pain of loving and losing her would be far worse than never loving her but I can't imagine never loving her
Loved and lost.
