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Is it better to have loved and lost or never to have loved at all? Why?
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never have loved at all
Better to have loved and lost. At least you loved and was loved, a person can't say "I wonder what it is like to be in love?" if they gave it a try. Better to have tried to do make it succeed than be scared that it will not succeed and not even try at all.
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meh yourself. Do you think you're too "tough" to answer this question?? :P You know it's better to love, don't lie.
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Oct 14, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Oct 14, 2011
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never loved at all. the pain and disappointment is not worth it
Loved and lost. I couldn't imagine not ever having the love I have with my husband. It is totally worth it.
Me parece que aquí no estaremos de acuerdo, pero para mi loved and lost es mucho mejor. Te llevas memorias inbrorrables. Has vivido.
Loved and lost - the experience is great.
loved and lost. To ask why is like asking a tree if it would rather not have leaves because they die each year. Love is part of being human- it brings the nourishment to our soul. Just because there is a chance at loss, doesn't mean we shouldn't try. To not try, to not be open to it, is to not ever fully live.
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It's always better to try something, than to wonder your whole like "what if?"
Loved and Lost.
Love and lost because durring that love and that feeling u will never forget it and it's the best feeling the ever was
Loved and lost. I'm a big believer in not hiding from life and everything (good or bad) that happens. I appreciate strong emotion because it helps me feel connected both to people and experiences. Love makes the world go round!
Loved and lost. You get filled up when you love, and even after that person's gone, you can still be full of love.
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Female, 36-40 years, Dating, DL, IN | Dec 05, 2011
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, DL, IN | Dec 05, 2011