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Does your heart tend to rule your head, or the other way around?
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This is something I have thought about many times in the recent past and I am not so sure anymore. I used to think I was very logical but I have found myself saying or doing things emotionally and irrationally at times. Maybe I'm finding the right balance.
Heart rules my head, feelings are as real and important as facts sometimes.
It's a constant struggle
I think that my penis rules both of them !
Heart over head
other way around. i intellectualize things a lot. i'm not the hopeless romantic type. on the other hand, i tend to be hot headed...
yes. my heart makes me do stupid things and cling on to things i shouldnt
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My heart rules my head
heart but sometimes head too
My heart rules
Head
my heart, but I try to force myself to think with my head and be more 'logical' and less emotional to stay sane sometimes in difficult situations... without adding to the drama.
Before....my head used to rule my heart but that was because I was constantly being brainwashed into thinking a certain way. But now, and for some time it is my heart that rules my head, because I have learned the hard way that the only way to get through life the way you are suppose to is, to listen to your heart because it does know best. You can control someone's mind, but you cannot control their heart.
They go back and forth.
