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Does your heart tend to rule your head, or the other way around?
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My head rules my heart normally. However, with my spouse, it has always been the other way around.
My head rules my heart. My heart has good intentions, but it is very stupid.
My head likes to think it is in charge, but my heart often goes behind and grabs a hold of thins. Just sometimes.
My heart definitely rules my head.......and I'm okay with it!
I think I tend to over think most things, but my ultimate decisions are around my heart and my gut.
To me love needs to make sense and have a purpose, add meaning to my life, if it doesn't then whats the point? So I would say my head rules my heart.
Tried using Heart, it screwed me up to the full extent...
Yes, too much. My biggest weakness.
Here's how it goes - heart responds first. Head cuts in and tries to talk reason. Heart whines and carries on. Head says something to the effect of "get a grip." Head usually wins.
I don't think it's one or the other. Sometimes it's hard to tell the two apart.
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yeah i follow my heart rather than my head too much...lol
Both. And there's a constant battle, and I hate it. My heart thinks my brain has no emotions, and brain thinks my heart is an idiot.
I filter almost everything (including this post I've rewritten about four times now). I wish my heart ruled my head more often so I would've typed the right answer the first time. Tonight helped solidify what I discovered about myself this weekend, I'm definitely in love with you Jen.
The heart certainly tries as I am very emotionally impulsive. I really try to use my head about matters
