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Does your heart tend to rule your head, or the other way around?


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I think I'm about even — I definitely analyze my decisions a lot, but I always have a strong emotional component for big decisions too.


My head... I think... :)


Half and half.


My heart tends to rule 70 percent of time should balance to 50~50


I am my emotions, my memories, and my self-awareness. My head and heart contain and nourish me. Virtually everything I do originates from my emotions. I am often perceived as following my head, not my heart. I think I appear that way because I have a strong need to feel safe and I have a strong desire to protect.



I think it's a constant struggle between the two, but my head wins out just a little bit more often.


Initially, I spent most of my life leading w/ my heart. I've learned to temper that with my head. However, when it comes to love and friendship, I instinctively go directly to the heart.


Not really, I think too much with my head and not my heart.


Head rules & Heart feels. Always suffering due to Head rules


My heart does rule my head. I know what I should do and say, but in the past I would sidetrack the issue. Now I am opening up, but it still takes me a second at times and sometimes that is too late because it takes my wife's persistence to get it out, by at which point she is fed up with the same old same old.


I fortunately and unfortunately am very strong on both ends. I try to follow my heart but do the right things...


it depends on the situation. Usually I follow my head, but sometimes the heart takes over.


Head, unfortunately.


Heart rules head


I think I'm pretty well balanced, with a very open heart and mind. Emotional intuition versus quick "thinking"...in a split second decision, hard to say which would win.



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