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If we will get to spend more time together in the future so we can get close again.
Am I making the right choice.
Does he truly love me? Did he cheat with her or not?
What's for supper?? I try not to worry about stuff. Just letting it work itself out in its own time.
Why is she so angry?
What am I doing wrong? Can this relationship last? Am I the problem?
where do iwant to be in 5 years?
did you write down the answers two the question, what you wanted to get in 6 month (8 month ago)? how doesit match reality?
Male, >50 years, Married, 03, AT | Jul 22, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, 03, AT | Jul 22, 2012
Where du you want to be in 5 years?
Male, >50 years, Married, 03, AT | Jul 22, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, 03, AT | Jul 22, 2012
i want to be in harmony again. mainly intrinsisch. less patients, more time for me 'life time'. in five years it is very likely i lost at least one dear friend. i want to be able to integrate those losses better. than means i have to be more acceptant. i want to have finished ögatap ( dozent), SE couples therapy. evtl. phd. earn enough to proceed travelling. sort things out between us. getting more independant. being on my path. friendship.
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
That sounds like a lifeplan i heard of. Very rational (as plans should be). What do you do to interate losses? You want to have new friendships?
What do you mean with 'sort things out'?
Gettin more independent in what parts of your life?
Male, >50 years, Married, 03, AT | Jul 22, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, 03, AT | Jul 22, 2012
integration of losses : achieve more acceptance. that is a therapeutical goal and i work on it ever since. eg lena age 12: du darfst so sein wie dein vater helped to accept. got it?
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
friendship: intensify those i have: silvia and conny
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
sort things out: find a gangbaren weg with or without you
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
independency: more independant in areas of my self ( eg selfperception). couples: more intrinsisch. finding safety as a result of what happened between you and me. and yes, that means withdrawal as a matter of safety. in fields of my learnings ( eg oegatap). etc
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married | Jul 22, 2012
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why am I allowing myself to be disrespected.i don't feel like myself
Why do I allow my anger to cloud my judgement ? As far as disrespect goes I'm sorry for dispecting you and for making you feel so
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Jul 03, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Jul 03, 2012
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What will make me happy and why am I so angry
I wonder if there's still a window to further or salvage our marriage. That's the biggest question I have that is in the grey shaded area of my life.
Will she be faithful
Where is life taking me? Will we have a future together?
If we will have a future
What should I be doing differently?
Is he truly falling for me or not?
