Icebreakers
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In a conflict or argument, do you prefer to resolve it now or resolve it later?
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I'm glad we resolve our problems as they come up, it doesn't allow us to have any residual negative feelings and the make up sex can happen sooner :)
Now. The longer we wait the madder I get.
Later. She is so friggin cute when she is mad.
Male, 26-30 years, Dating | Apr 04, 2013
Male, 26-30 years, Dating | Apr 04, 2013
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Now!
Later, because I'm too frustrated to talk it out right away.
Do it now! Deferring usually doesn't help anything.
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now if possible but most are differences that one learns to dance around
Resolve it now.
Male, >50 years, Dating | Apr 03, 2013
Male, >50 years, Dating | Apr 03, 2013
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now if the fight is not intense or later if it gets crazy. I've got a temper, so it usually gets crazy!
Definitely resolve it at the moment.
Depends on what, where, and how much of an issue it is.
Most of the time now. If not, then def like an hour after it happens. Anything longer than that brings on this deep saddness bc that is time that we couldve had happy together and we will never, ever get that time back. Life is short n i want every moment w him to be a happy one
Ignoring an issue won't fix it. The sooner the better, however sometimes you need a break a minute to think.
Prefer sooner rather than later, and address in healthy mutually empathetic dialogue.
now. I want to move past issues and enjoy our love I hold resentment in and that isn't healthy or productive so I like to discuss things to get rid of them
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