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In a conflict or argument, do you prefer to resolve it now or resolve it later?
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Resolve it now, but I don't think we've had an actual argument.
Now, always now. Never go to sleep on an argument!!!
depending, normally I prefer resolve later because I need Think before to talk
Resolve it asap, so you aren't bottling up anger and spite. I think it's important to communicate things when they come up because we may be a team, but we still are separate people and have our own needs. It's ok to vocalize those needs and even frustrations in order to grow and be productive the next time around. I'm a fixer.
Resolve it now
Ideal resolve it now but I know i am hard headed so later lol
Now.
You definitely know this about me. I'm pretty sure your answer would be later because you would prefer time to think about it?
You definitely know this about me. I'm pretty sure your answer would be later because you would prefer time to think about it?
If it is a conflict or argument, I prefer to figure it out sooner rather than later. If it is a touchy feely subject, I prefer to think.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 06, 2016
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 06, 2016
Makes sense. Good. We're in the same page then.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Jan 06, 2016
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Jan 06, 2016
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Right away! Why let it brew?
I prefer to resolve now. I will ask questions to find out what is happening even when my partner tries to close up herself.
Depends how bad it is. Normally I like to resolve it right then or close to it but if I'm really hurt it may take some time to cool down.
Now, otherwise it just worries me and stresses me out
Right now!
later
Why later? What's the benefit of it?
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Sep 27, 2016
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Sep 27, 2016
You can cool down and reflexionate about what happened. So you angryness is gone and you can express yourself better.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Sep 28, 2016
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Sep 28, 2016
but then the anger can comes back maybe the next day. And then you're angry twice!!! Why not better stop being angry ASAP?
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Sep 28, 2016
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Sep 28, 2016
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Depending on the tone and state of mind that we are in, if there is no alcohol involved or heavy emotion, I think that the best time is right then and there. On the other hand if either one of us is in an overly emotional state of mind, or I f there is alcohol involved, I would prefer to discuss the issue the following day, or when things cool off so that the both of us are in the right state of mind to come to a resolution.
Perfectly put! I agree 🙌🏼
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Mar 13, 2016
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Mar 13, 2016
Because you you're awesome. 😜
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Mar 13, 2016
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Mar 13, 2016
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Resolve it now
There won't be any conflicts!
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Mar 05, 2016
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Mar 05, 2016
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