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In a conflict or argument, do you prefer to resolve it now or resolve it later?
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Now. I can't wait till later. At least it's hard. I always wanna resolve it right then or it bugs me. Maybe I should get better at just changing the subject but it's so hard for me.
Later. If in public especially, that's no one else's business. I never once saw my parents argue and I think it made an impact on me in such a positive way that I want to continue that. Respect. For her and those around us.
Now. I don't like putting things like that off or letting it fester. With school work?... I'll wait till later:)
NOW
It depends on what the situation is and what kind of day I've had
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for me, definitely now. so tt i wont be tinking abt it. maybe he cld just make his stand clear before he goes cooling down. so tt i can make my counter argument. haha
Resolve it now. I hate to let it linger. I worry.
I have learned that it truly depends on whether anger is on the surface or not. If I can't treat the situation with love then I need to wait.
Resolve it later
NOW NOW NOW
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, MD, US | Dec 11, 2014
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, MD, US | Dec 11, 2014
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Now or later. It depends how bad the fight is and how pissed we both are
Now is better
For me sometimes ill need to walk away and cool down but definitely, now. There is no breaking up we sit down and talk.
I prefer to solve it right then. If I don't then it will eat me alive. Common grounds is the best ground to stand on.
Depends how heated it is. If people are angry it's better to cool down then come back to it I think
