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In a conflict or argument, do you prefer to resolve it now or resolve it later?
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Now, but we know how that goes...
I prefer now but sometimes I don't realize I am bothered by something until later and that makes it Harder to bring up. But I do eventually because I have to remember that if I don't communicate or say something then I have no one but myself to blame if I am not happy with xyz.
It's always better to take care of an issue immediately. Otherwise it can fester and worsen.
You should always try and resolve it straight away and clear the air
The sooner the better... It changes meaning... Shape... Texture... And become something bigger, destructive, and sad... I hate the distance between us when something is off...
It's painful to let a problem linger on, but sometimes time heals the initial tension.
Now!!! Most definitely.
Resolve it now
Asap but is hard when shes at a club and drinking
Now! But sometimes i procastinate
I definitely believe in solving problems now. He, does not. It isn't an easy difference to have!
I prefer to resolve it now. I don't think it always should be handled that way some relationships it works great others not so much.
Depends on how severe the issue... sometimes it is necessary to cool down & gain composure before reacting to a situation. I would say after some thought it would be beneficial to resolve conflict in a timely fashion.
Resolve the problem right away. I can't sleep with a conflict because it lingers into the morning. Starting off the day negatively
Try to resolve it now but sometimes there is so much anger that there needs to be a breather I resolve it effectively
