Icebreakers
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Would you want to know if your partner was cheating on you? Why or why not?
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For cheating I used to think ignorance was bliss. With Zac I could never feel like that, my view and trust in him and us is so strong that I could never turn a blind eye to it. He knows, no second chances for that and I hope he'd never want that anyway.
No,., I don't want to know . Even I start knowing I will cover it up
It's know way to go through life. Or have a lasting relationship
Male, >50 years, Married | Dec 15, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married | Dec 15, 2012
You really have warped sense of values. You lie you cover it up. flirting online is ok with you, you think keeping secrets is ok. Maybe you need to se a professional therapist
Male, >50 years, Married | Dec 15, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married | Dec 15, 2012
Your answers to some of these questions show your personality and why you are a high risk for cheating. You need to do something about it.
Male, >50 years, Married | Dec 15, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married | Dec 15, 2012
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I would know. But I don't think I could accept it. I would put it down to paranoia because I can't believe he would EVER intentionally hurt me like that.
I would like to think I would want to know but I am not sure if I could handle what would come if I knew.
Yes so I could know what I did wrong to know why he had to cheat on me
Of course I wouldn't be able to date him anymore but I wouldn't kill him or nothing, he will always be my best friend
Of course I wouldn't be able to date him anymore but I wouldn't kill him or nothing, he will always be my best friend
ummmmmmmmm.. ya huh.. but thats not an issue
My wife did cheat on me. The news was devastating, I'm still struggling with it now. She means everything to me and I'm doing my best to make it work. So the answer is yes you need to know, even if you wish you didn't . You can make thing right or move on with your life. This is the only life we have, use it wisely.
Yes
Yes. I'm pretty sure everyone would say yes on this one.
Yes, I should be able to know and proceed with the truth...
Of course! But then we could never get back together because the trust that I had for him would disappear. :(
I'd live a lie if it ment I could keep her. It would be a blow to my ego, and my sense of stability if she ever cheated on me. Everything that I understand would come to an end.
Yes than I'd know to say goodbye and not waste time on someone who has been lying the whole time
Yes. I'd rather know I wasn't worth it than be lied to with every kiss.
Yes! Because that would mean something isn't right in our relationship and either we need to fix it or part ways! Cheating is unacceptable and a sure sign of the beginning or the end!
