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Would you want to know if your partner was cheating on you? Why or why not?
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YES. I don't want to be with him if he wants someone else! If it was a terrible mistake that he regrets, he needs to be held accountable for it so if a pattern emerges it is apparent sooner.
Considering I've been told I was, I feel like my heart was ripped out.
I would want to know, because honesty is needed in any kind of relationship, especially romantic ones. If you're not honest with yourself and the person you're with, what's the point in being in one? I've considered not finding out, and things continuing to go good, and, I'd feel sick if I never found out. As much as it hurt, I'd want the truth told to me. I didn't know what to believe anymore once I found out, having lived t
I would want to know, because honesty is needed in any kind of relationship, especially romantic ones. If you're not honest with yourself and the person you're with, what's the point in being in one? I've considered not finding out, and things continuing to go good, and, I'd feel sick if I never found out. As much as it hurt, I'd want the truth told to me. I didn't know what to believe anymore once I found out, having lived t
If he's cheating he's not acting like my partner, or even my friend - he'd be treating me like someone he doesn't even respect let alone love. No respect = no me.
I completely agree with you darling, that's the perfect answer!
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, BC, CA | Dec 22, 2012
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, BC, CA | Dec 22, 2012
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Yes I would want to know. What's the point of continuing a relationship that one of you doesn't value or want to be in.
Yes, it would hurt to hear but would be worse to be in the dark about it.
Absolutely. Trust and honesty are vital for any relationship.
Depends on what happened and why. A kiss with a stranger after a huge fight? No. But a long relationship with some one else, yes. It's not the relationship I'm looking for.
Yes definitely. I would feel like a fool if it was kept from me
I would. I believe in honesty first and foremost.
Yes, because I would hate for it to go on behind my back
yes. so we could work through it or decide if we are over as a team
She cannot really cheat on me as I have given her permission if she ever wants to. I would like to know, only to share in her experience. As long as she comes home to me and is safe, I trust any decision she makes.
Yes. I need to know
Of course. It's far more dangerous and harmful to not know.
Yes. I would want to know even if it devastated me.
