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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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Speaking the truth. I told him that there are some issues with a close friend he's close with that he thinks I'm looking at the bad points of people.
I always speak the truth and that is pleasing in itself. I never lie to my partner.
Speaking the truth. No question, im a selfish woman.
pleasing your partner. I can be brutally honest and that's not the best thing in a relationship so I try to bite my tongue every now and then
Pleasing him, I try so hard to pretend that im happy with some of the stuff he does or that we do together or even some of the stuff he says andd believes but its tough because my heart and head want way different things then he does but im scared if i tell him he'll get really mad and not want to be with me anymore.
Speaking the truth IS pleasing to my partner. I just have to make sure I say it in a loving way if it's something that might make him feel bad.
A little of both. I want to tell the truth but also to let her know that I want her to be happy. I love her just the way that she is.
For a long time it was pleasing her, I would bring the kids up, even when I wanted alone time with her
Speaking the truth. When you have honesty you have trust and that instills respect. Three very important qualities in a relationship.
Honestly please her! however, honestly, please her!!
the truth can always be pleasing
Pleasing him, I wouldn't tell him that I didn't like that he was gaining weight and it blew up in our faces
Speaking the truth.. FAT
Pleasing her, just to see her smile means that she is happy...
i end up doing the first but should be doing the second
