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What makes the best present: something useful, or a big surprise?
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Useful with occasional surprises.
A big surprise is way more fun. Useful is something I would buy myself.
Algo útil. Si es útil y es sorpresa, mejor.
Surprise, duh
Big surprises are always amazing but sometimes useful things have to be there as well :)
I've had a lifetime of useful. If it is something for the house or to aid in chores it should be a rwgular household purchase and not a gift. Gifts should reflect the underlying nature of the relationship between giver and receiver.
A big suprise
Useful I can buy myself. So surprises are always better :)
It depends... I tend to ask for practical gifts for holidays but surprise "I love you" gifts should be fun!
Tough question. Love both. Love what I need but think its really romantic when its a surprise.
Being a guy, I'd say something practical and useful. That being said, I don't have to know what it is, if it's a surprise.
She has gotten me gifts that let me know how much she loves me, of which were wonderful surprises.
She has gotten me gifts that let me know how much she loves me, of which were wonderful surprises.
Why not both? :))Somethings that shows he put thought into it.
Either/or, since I love presents!
A big surprise! If I want something useful I'll get it for myself.
yeah agreed. don't want junk to clutter things up
