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Do you believe in fate, or do you believe you create your own destiny?
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You create your own destiny. Luck and fate are just opiates.
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Fate. I believe that God has a plan for us and that we get in the way of his plan with our choices. But God somehow manages to get us where we need to be if we listen to his guidance.
You make your own path with what fate gives you
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Fate - I believe that no matter how hard you try to create your own destiny there will always be other forces that get in the way
I think there is a certain path laid out for us because all the events that brought us together can't all be coincidence...to be there at the right place at the right time in another country..hmmm i think its fate!
I think so too. What confuses me is the times in between those big moments where it feels like we're pointlessly floating around.
Male, 36-40 years, Domestically Partnered | Jan 14, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Domestically Partnered | Jan 14, 2012
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You create your own life. Life hands you shit and make it what you will. Figure it out people. No one in real life gets a silver platter handed to them so work for it!!
Both- theres a plan but we customize it.
Both. I believe that God has a plan for all of us but we can change that plan by decisions that we make in life.
Destiny refers to a destination in life. There is no such thing. Fate refers to events and people that we are fated to experience along our journey. So yes I do believe in fate. It is the same as saying everything happens for a reason... It is fated. However, that is not to say that we do nt have will power or control about our lives. We control how we act how we react. We choose between this or that. So I believe in both fate and control but not destiny. Life is a journey so roll with it.
Fate and Murphy have it in for all of us...
Create you own destiny!!!!!!
Female, 31-35 years, Engaged | Jan 07, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Engaged | Jan 07, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Engaged | Jan 07, 2012