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Do you believe in fate, or do you believe you create your own destiny?


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a little bit of both. i think they intertwine in a way


fate


Create your path - there is not destiny


I believe in both fate and destiny. I believe that fate gives you the opportunity to create your own destiny.


I believe in both :D Fate in that there are things that are better for us and cosmically arranged and in proportion with our particular energies, which we are naturally drawn to and tend to excell in, I also believe you can create your own destiny because whether we listen to our head or our heart will determine our outcome. Our head is our rational, doubt, fear, skepticism that cause us to second guess, our heart is our compass leading us where is best for us to go. With your head you create
your destiny, with your heart you seal your fate.
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged | Nov 22, 2011

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Depends on how you define fate and in what context. I believe that dots connect through out my life and as long as you see the big picture, explore broadly and seek out opportunities then those will lead to good things. Sometimes the good things are magical and the feeling I get is as if it was fate. Was it? In some ways it's a little bit of both. What matters more to me is that magical feeling in the moment and the hope that it will happen again in the future.


I don't believe in fate. I think it seems superstitious and irresponsible to believe in that.


both


My personal life experiences shown that fate in about the "what", while the "how" is up to you... and the "why" is for oneself to find out.


A little bit of both... though I didn't believe in fate at all until I met my love. I think we have control over our own lives, but every now and then, fate puts two people in the same place for a reason.
Absolutely I feel the same way!!!
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged | Nov 22, 2011

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We create our own.


We create our own.


I really don't believe in fate, but there have been times in my life when things have happened that have seemed like fate.
Yes, there have been plenty of times for me where there was such a strong coincidence it was like, "Huh. Wow." It's usually kind of neat when that happens.
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, Bi, WI, US | Oct 20, 2011

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You need to work hard to get what you want but fate décidés also


Fate had me going the wrong place so i had to set her straight.



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