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Icebreakers
Find out what's on your partner's mind, share what's on yours, and get insights from other couples. We ask what you might not think to.
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![Male, 31-35 years, Engaged, Gay, FL, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Mr Bandy, Williams want you. (More than likely lol)
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I don't remember the very first thing (we were friends for a long time first), but what started off the relationship went something like this:
"I think I ought to ask your permission before I fall in love with you."
"I think I ought to ask your permission before I fall in love with you."
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Aww!! That's so cute!
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Dec 17, 2012
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Dec 17, 2012
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
As far as i remember, you spotted a new name in that chat one day (note to others: this was five-six years before we started dating) and asked something on the lines of "Hi, I haven't seen you here before. Who are you?" and continued to welcome me to that community :)
Male, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US | Apr 02, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US | Apr 02, 2013
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![Male, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Hey what's going on ......phone conversation ect ....we talked for a while befor I met her at my Aunty house
![Male, 26-30 years, Dating, IL, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
You're not going to win this poke war.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CT, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
"What's closing the blinds going to accomplish during a hurricane?"
![Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Thanks for the shot!
![Male, 36-40 years, Engaged](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Hey ladies you want a shot?
Male, 36-40 years, Engaged | Mar 01, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Engaged | Mar 01, 2013
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![Male, 41-50 years, Married, VA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Wow, I'm gonna marry you one day
![Male, 26-30 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I don't remember. But I wonder if she does?
![Female, >50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Hello
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, PA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I've been fucking your mom
![Male, 36-40 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Hi nice to meet you
![Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, MD, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Hello? Lol
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Yes
![Female, <20 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
'Can we cuddle? I'm lonely and sore and I like cuddles.'
![Male, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Rawr! hehe