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Icebreakers
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![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Both
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Lovers
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
both
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Both :]
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Yes
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
ambas
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Friends
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Friends first above all. You need to have compatibility and not just chemistry. While chemistry is important you need a foundation. Friends don’t always like the same things or think the same way. By having different view points you can continually challenge each others minds. A strong sturdy foundation of compatibility will be there when sometimes it feels that the chemistry has cooled momentarily
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
but isn t that the reason why ppl cheat? Bcs they become friends, forget that love = hard work and they become lazy ... Lazy to love
Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Apr 21, 2020
Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Apr 21, 2020
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I would say lovers
Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Apr 21, 2020
Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Apr 21, 2020
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Being lovers doesn’t automatically mean a long-lasting healthy relationship though. And the fluctuation of sex-drives doesn’t necessarily lead to cheating. What happens when high chemistry fizzles out if there isn’t the foundation of friendship, compatibility and companionship?
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Apr 21, 2020
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Apr 21, 2020
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Can t say in general but based on what I ve seen... Usually depends if Brad Pitt steps into the scene too... if yes then usually the girl ends up being in love with Brad and says sorry and admits that she can stay being friends with the other guy 🤷🏻♂️ If not then they keep being friends and together... till Brad comes and puts the relationship under challenge. I don t date Slovak girls, I rather isolated myself for a reason
Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Apr 21, 2020
Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Apr 21, 2020
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
... not bcs I was afraid to be harmed or I wouldn’t enjoy myself... my values have changed
Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Apr 21, 2020
Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Apr 21, 2020
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![Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Definitivamente ser amigos para así poder entendernos perfectamente en el resto de cosas
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
In order to function in the best way possible, a couple needs to have both of them.
![Male, 21-25 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Friends that are lovers