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Who in your relationship is more likely to make the big decisions?
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![Female, 41-50 years, Married, UT, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I feel like you are the one with the big ideas, but ultimately we make a decision together if it's bigger than a target purchase 😊
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Him. At his discretion to make them.
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I can see us both as the type of people to make big decisions. But I think we work together well and can make those decisions together.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, AR, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Me 😑
![Male, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I think we would both make the big decision the thing we have to make sure we do is talk about the decision before one of us acts on that decision.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I hope we make them equally.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I second that answer we both will make them together, hopefully
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 26, 2015
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 26, 2015
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![Male, 36-40 years, Engaged](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Us!
![Female, 41-50 years, Engaged](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I think that's one thing that we need to be better with. A lot of times no decision is made at all or we assume one thing or another, but I think that whoever made the decision the other would be okay with
![Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, PA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I'll take that one. I assume too much. I'm sorry for that. It's something I want to get better with and I promise you that it is in the forefront. I never want you to think or feel that your thoughts, opinions, wants or needs don't matter. They do. More than anything.
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, PA, US | Aug 22, 2015
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, PA, US | Aug 22, 2015
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![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Both of us say own opinion, then meet at middle.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Ethan haha I'm really indecisive but if it is a big enough decision we talk about it and agree.
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Probably me I think things through a lot more
![Male, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Even though I'm the sharpest bucket kn the shed
Male, 26-30 years, Dating | Oct 10, 2015
Male, 26-30 years, Dating | Oct 10, 2015
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![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, 07, NL](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
She probably is
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I think we both make our own, then duke it out with a final decision.
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Me. I run this shit.
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, NC, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
He is. He's too stubborn for for the big decisions to come from anywhere else!