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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I'll do both. I've been lazy lately though and haven't been initiating it.
I prefer my partner to initiate. Because I am afraid getting hurt because of rejection from her. But if I'm very turned on, I don't mind initiating as Long as I'm sure I won't be rejected.
Both
Both. But I really like it when he takes charge. I'm kinda the aggressor period so it's nice to give up control to him.
have it initiated
I agree. It depends on the mood, and the moment.
Initiated for me and also it depends on my mood I guess
Depends on my mood.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 23, 2015
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 23, 2015
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Both
Both and always and crazy passionate every day every room every position. Gimme gimme gimme
I have absolutely no problem initiating sex when I want it, and if I'm not in the mood that can usually very easily change lol so.
Both are fine, but it's nice to feel wanted when someone else initiates
Both.
Most of the time I would rather start it
Sometimes I like to initiate it and sometimes I like it when you do. It's fun both ways to me. ;) I know that you want me to initiate it more than I do. :( I can also be gun shy for reasons we have talked about. <:(
