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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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Initiate.
I LIKE BOTHHHHHHH
Both. The more the merrier.
I prefer for him to initiate it...
I think it should be both ways and I need to work on initiating it.
Both
I always initiate it, would be nice for her to initiate it once in a while.
depends on my mood.
No preference, though my wife might think I prefer her initiation.
Initiated. I like to feel wanted.
I like both sometimes.
Male, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered | Apr 13, 2014
Male, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered | Apr 13, 2014
I like both too. When I'm feeling sexy it's nice to initiate and feel like I can drive you crazy with desire.
Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered | Apr 13, 2014
Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered | Apr 13, 2014
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Have it initiated
Him to initiate it.
I know. Our sex life is almost non existent now. I wish I knew the answer. I think we just need to continue to work on things and remember we love each other.
Male, >50 years, Married | Feb 09, 2014
Male, >50 years, Married | Feb 09, 2014
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I love my beautiful wife. When I initiate it sometimes feels like you are just to tired because you don't seem to be responding. I will stop rather than be pushy.
Initiated definately. Everyone wants to feel wanted and when your partner initiates intamacy it's an indication that your desired. Sometimes I intiate, but lately I have had a low libido and I have let it dictate those moments for me.
