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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?


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Putting it in simple terms I would have to say both.
Yeah, grrrr. Cmere.💜💜💜
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, VIC, AU | Feb 24, 2013

lol! that is so cute!
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Mar 15, 2013

Not that cute! Im gonna kill him i think! Lol. Thank you tho ❤
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, VIC, AU | Mar 15, 2013

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Both. I like to feel wanted and I want my husband to feel that way too.


I say this, I go for it only cause we spend as much time as we can get and of course practice makes perfect


who am i to be picky? lol


I like both


Both


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oh, whats this? Oh look! Its my V-Card! Where'd that come from? (I'm a virgin yall)


While I've not had sex yet, I tend to not be the initiate but that's usually because I'm too nervous or uncomfortable with someone too initiate (that is, in my past relationships). I tend to be a bit awkward with physical interaction anyway. Not because I don't like it (I do) but because it's unusual and weird for me. When I'm comfortable and confident, I'm sure I'll be able to go both ways.


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It depends I wish she would start it some more than what she does, I feel like I'm always asking for it, and that she's just not into sex anymore.....


Well not sex but other sorts of physical things I prefer it to be initiated because I'm really insecure
But once I'm comfortable switching off is good too ;)


I have no preference. If I'm really turned on, I'll initiate, but I certainly don't object to him starting.


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Initiated for me turns me on to know that I turn him on



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