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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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Mostly for him to initiate it but NEVER for him to plan it
Both. There us something erotic about being the one who is the aggressor. But it is just a erotic to have my wife initiate and take change of the sex.
I am usually the initiator. But I really really like when she is.
Both.
Surprise me:()
Both but it would be nice to have you come take it more often!!!! Lol!!!!
You shy really!!!!
Male, 41-50 years, Married, IL, US | Feb 13, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, IL, US | Feb 13, 2013
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Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 14, 2013
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 14, 2013
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Both but mostly when he starts
The simple answer is both. But its not the whole story.
Have it initiated for me. But not the lucky kind
Used to initiate it for the first YEAR we were together then I stopped and he didn't pursue too aggressively if at all.. I have to feel REAL wanted. N I need a super foreword, open, aggressive man for my sexual appetite to be satiated
Have it initiated
I prefer both, with creativity and spontaneity
To initiate
Both. I like to feel wanted and I like to want!
I like to initiate and I like the opposite.
