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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?


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The simple answer is both. But its not the whole story.


Both. I like to feel wanted and I like to want!


Both but it would be nice to have you come take it more often!!!! Lol!!!!
You shy really!!!!
Male, 41-50 years, Married, IL, US | Feb 13, 2013

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Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 14, 2013

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Both.


I am usually the initiator. But I really really like when she is.


To initiate


Have it initiated for me. But not the lucky kind


Have it initiated


Surprise me:()


I like to initiate and I like the opposite.


Both but mostly when he starts


Used to initiate it for the first YEAR we were together then I stopped and he didn't pursue too aggressively if at all.. I have to feel REAL wanted. N I need a super foreword, open, aggressive man for my sexual appetite to be satiated


I prefer both, with creativity and spontaneity


Mostly for him to initiate it but NEVER for him to plan it


Both. There us something erotic about being the one who is the aggressor. But it is just a erotic to have my wife initiate and take change of the sex.



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