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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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Initiated, otherwise I feel like its all about me.
Both :)
always willing...
Both
I'm always been an initiator and so is she, it's great
Refer to dominant/submissive question
Depends on the mood!!
Initiated for me usually
Prefer to be pounced upon but usually end up being the one to initiate.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Nov 21, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Nov 21, 2012
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Female, 41-50 years, Dating, MN, US | Nov 21, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, MN, US | Nov 21, 2012
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I like when it's mutual.
I never minded initiating until I was denied and that's not a good feeling so I now prefer it to be initiated on me.
Both; it just depends on the moment. He likes both and so do I
Both
I like to have it initiated because I have a fear of being told no.
I like to initiate and to try to put her in the mood
It depends on the situation but either way is totally fine with me
