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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I initiate sex, I don't know what the other feels like. I suppose I would enjoy her initiating sex by just doing, not asking.
I think initiation is the boy's job. It feels unladylike to initiate sex. It's not something I've ever said no to.
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Well, initiated for me to tell you the truth. I have my days were I just go for it but I don't feel is lady like to do so, that's why I like him doing that first move.
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I tend to initiate a lot. So, I love it when he initiates, and is dominate. (Oh yeah!)
Initiated, I don't like the let down when she's not in the mood.
I really wanted to try to initiate it,coz i know it would make him more happy but i just dont know how to start.
Well I Persue more and like it but sometimes it's nice to have someone thrust them self upon u
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He usually does, and I hardly ever do. I'm more of a hint dropper... but realizing more & more, guys are dumb & just don't get subtle hints. LOL Maybe I just don't know what I'm doing, that makes me feel so weird/awkward? I do it every now & again, but very rarely! :0( Boo me!
I think it should be both. If its just one sided you'll eventually feel like your partner doesn't really care to have sex with you even if they never deny you, just because they don't put the effort into it.
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