Icebreakers
Find out what's on your partner's mind, share what's on yours, and get insights from other couples. We ask what you might not think to.
Have a suggestion for an Icebreaker?
Submit it here.
Related Icebreakers
How did you feel about your partner's parents the first time you met them? Have your feelings changed since then?
Whose needs tend to take priority in your relationship?
What's one thing you admire about your parents' personalities that your partner also has?
What's your ideal Sunday morning?
What's your favorite memory of the relationship so far?
+ 10
Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
Ask your friends
Copy link
Answered by 
Well, initiated for me to tell you the truth. I have my days were I just go for it but I don't feel is lady like to do so, that's why I like him doing that first move.
I think initiation is the boy's job. It feels unladylike to initiate sex. It's not something I've ever said no to.
I tend to initiate a lot. So, I love it when he initiates, and is dominate. (Oh yeah!)
I think it should be both. If its just one sided you'll eventually feel like your partner doesn't really care to have sex with you even if they never deny you, just because they don't put the effort into it.
I really wanted to try to initiate it,coz i know it would make him more happy but i just dont know how to start.
Both
Both
Initiated, I don't like the let down when she's not in the mood.
Both
Both
I initiate sex, I don't know what the other feels like. I suppose I would enjoy her initiating sex by just doing, not asking.
Well I Persue more and like it but sometimes it's nice to have someone thrust them self upon u
He usually does, and I hardly ever do. I'm more of a hint dropper... but realizing more & more, guys are dumb & just don't get subtle hints. LOL Maybe I just don't know what I'm doing, that makes me feel so weird/awkward? I do it every now & again, but very rarely! :0( Boo me!
Both
Both "as well" ;)
