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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I like when he initiates it.. I like being submissive to him
I want to initiate it more, but usually don't.
Initiated - I never know when it's okay... plus it's really hot. I do enjoy initiating too... it's always fun either way... ;)
I think everyone wants to feel wanted and I initiate sex more often than a typical woman to try to keep my man happy. I would love to just be taken by surprise every once in a while for a change and him want me so bad that he can't control himself. I want him to initiate it more.
I usually think about sex quite often so in the beginning I would initiate more but over the years of hearing, "i' m too tired" i have pretty much stopped initiating and probably get very resentful when he doesn't either. I always felt like if we couldn't make time for sex we were just roommates...
I Love it when she initiates! I almost always start things up
I just like sex.
It's nice to feel wanted, but initiating is also very empowering..
Have it initiated .
I like it when she initiates it.
Have it initiated.. I always initiate it. I just like being pinned down and being told that he wants it
I really appreciate feeling desired when she makes the first move. The best is when she kisses me and I can feel her intentions or if she just comes up and grabs me or rubs up on my discretely. I like initiating too because I want her to feel desired and sexy.
The subtle hints are what she chooses to wear to bed and if she closes the bedroom door at night...
The subtle hints are what she chooses to wear to bed and if she closes the bedroom door at night...
Both.
I have no preference.
I usually have to but would love to have her initiate it.
