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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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Have it initiated
I would love for her to initiate cause it makes me feel like she loves me but do like to initiate also cause I like for her to feel wanted plus flirting with her makes her roll her eyes lol
her but both are nice
Both!
I love when he initiates it. When I do he usually shuts me down hahah.
Both!
I like to initiate and also have it initiated. I want him to feel desired and I also like to feel desired at times.
I usually do but would like her too
Both... I like to initiate, but I do wish he would take the lead a little more often
depends on my mood... really? hmm
In an ideal world, he would always want me so much he can't wait to get things started. But, sometimes I like to let him know I can't wait to have him...
Both.. You need to show they're wanted as much as be shown that you are
I like both :)
Both... Lol. I love it when she gets naughty and just goes for it.!! But I also like to surprise her and just ravage her in the kitchen or snuggle up behind her in bed and just take her..;)
Her to do it haha
