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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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Mix of both
I prefer when he initiates it. I like being pursued but I know he would like me to initiate more on my own.
I would say both!
Both. It's nice to feel sexy and wanted.
I like it to be equal. I enjoy taking the lead and pouncing on my partner, but I start to feel crappy if I feel like it's always me.
I wish my husband initiated it with me. It has been rough for awhile now.
It needs to be give and take to be healthy.
Both!
The phrase "initiate sex" makes it sound so clinical, like it's a pair of robots who are just following programming. Beep boop, must initiate sex.
Really thou, I like flirting and I like being flirted with. Generally I like to take the lead in things, but it's not like I'll have a bad time just because she takes the initiative.
Really thou, I like flirting and I like being flirted with. Generally I like to take the lead in things, but it's not like I'll have a bad time just because she takes the initiative.
I love to initiate the sex but also a little bit of doing and not asking or giving any notion is sexy also!!
I prefer mixing it up
We both have our moments but I'd say it's mostly my fiancé that initiates! I'm trying to do it more often though!
Initiated for me so that I don't seem like some crazy horn ball ALL the time :-)
Both. Either way I enjoy it very much
I like a little of both. I like when he takes charge, but I like to be in charge sometimes, too. It depends on my mood.
