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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I love to initiate the sex but also a little bit of doing and not asking or giving any notion is sexy also!!
I prefer mixing it up
It needs to be give and take to be healthy.
Mix of both
Both. It's nice to feel sexy and wanted.
I like it to be equal. I enjoy taking the lead and pouncing on my partner, but I start to feel crappy if I feel like it's always me.
I like a little of both. I like when he takes charge, but I like to be in charge sometimes, too. It depends on my mood.
The phrase "initiate sex" makes it sound so clinical, like it's a pair of robots who are just following programming. Beep boop, must initiate sex.
Really thou, I like flirting and I like being flirted with. Generally I like to take the lead in things, but it's not like I'll have a bad time just because she takes the initiative.
Really thou, I like flirting and I like being flirted with. Generally I like to take the lead in things, but it's not like I'll have a bad time just because she takes the initiative.
Initiated for me so that I don't seem like some crazy horn ball ALL the time :-)
Both!
I prefer when he initiates it. I like being pursued but I know he would like me to initiate more on my own.
We both have our moments but I'd say it's mostly my fiancé that initiates! I'm trying to do it more often though!
I would say both!
Both. Either way I enjoy it very much
I wish my husband initiated it with me. It has been rough for awhile now.