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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I like an equal share
Definitely both.
I like both. Sometimes it is hard for both of us to initiate if we have had a tiff. We are both stubborn. We are learning to humble ourselves
Yes, we have been bad about this lately... definitely time to turn that around hopefully.
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Sep 27, 2012
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Sep 27, 2012
Indeed
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Nov 09, 2012
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Nov 09, 2012
Hopefully we can turn this pattern around.
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Nov 09, 2012
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Nov 09, 2012
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Well being the guy I'm always "Good To Go" - Yelawolf, but I like it when she is the one to instigate it.
either way is fine
Both.
Neither not a fan of sex
I'm torn it depends what mood I'm in
Hmm.... Well since I initiate often it would be nice to have a change
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Nov 12, 2012
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Nov 12, 2012
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Both
I used to like it initiated for me but now enjoy sometimes initiating it first
Both. I like to feel wanted and like I am unintentionally turning her on.
both
Be initiated to me... Never happens! 😔
Sometimes I think I am overly sensitive to how I think my wife is feeling emotionally, I tend to try less than I should.
He instigates it..
