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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I love when he comes onto me... I get shy sometimes... Don't get me wrong, I definitely can get him going when I want him. God he's sexy
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Have it initiated mostly. I initiate subtly & if not reciprocated I feel it's unwanted. Insecure a bit. And timid sometimes.
I'm used to initiating sex so I prefer for my girlfriend to initiate!
It doesn't matter as long as its initiated it's always amazing regardless lol
Have initiated
I want to initiate it.
I prefer to feel desired and wanted and balance is the key to that...But I do love it when he reaches for me with desire in his eyes. Lol
Does not apply
His sex drive is higher than mine most of the time, so it's easier for him to initiate. :)
Both
Having it initiated leaves me feeling desired.
Have it initiated
I tried initiating but it was turned down too often so now I just let her decide when.
