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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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Depending on how bad I want it. He has a waaaaay higher sex drive than me do mostly he is the initiator
I like it when he's Horney & takes control when he's in that mood & over all I do enjoy him turning me on & smooching on my neck & getting me excited first, but I love doing his favorite spontaneous love moves ;;) making his day all better! I love you Pootie bear!!
I think it should go both ways...either way ;)
Both, but it's nice to have her put me in the mood with a slow kiss and caressing
I don't mind either way
He initiates sex majority of the time. I know he wished I initiated sex more but it turn me on more when he does it.
I don't mind either way. I just want it
It all depends on the mood I'm in
Fuck I don't care as long as we're thuggin
99.9% of the time, I am the one initiating it. I would love it if she was more into initiating it, or at least dropped hints that she wanted me to initiate it.
Both.
I would rather he start most the time!!!!!! I will start though!
I like when she initiates or at the least makes it obvious that sex is welcome. I also like to initiate, but fear rejection. Waking up to a Saturday morning blowjob would be wonderful sometime, sure. ;)
I prefer for my partner to initiate sex. Although I know I should to and will. Love u baby
Female, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Jul 29, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Jul 29, 2012
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Depends on the mood but I don't mind initiating once in a while
It depends on the situation. There has to balance in both
