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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I like to have it initiated BUT I don't like 2 initiate it b/c he'll act like he's too tired sum txms
I prefer my partner to initiate it.
I would want it initiated. Definitely. Although I ruined an initiation of another type tonight.... :/ Sorry, Babe
I like to initiate sex, I just don't like being "hounded" for sex!
We both like to although I'm definitely more inclined to initiate... I Love it when he initiates though ;) its soooo SEXY! Ahhhh
Would love to have her do it. Like really start it off. I always start.
I like initiating but only when i pick up on the signals that we are both in the mood :) I really wouldn't mind if my hawt girlfriend started things off though x x x
You're a good signal reader, which helps. Hopefully I'll feel better about initiating soon.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Jul 24, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Jul 24, 2012
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I love it initiated for me as I also know how to get it initiated!!!! =).
Think it should go both ways!
I would like to initiate it but I would be scared of being rejected. I think it should be initiated by both in a couple at different times.
I like him to bring it on
I usually initiate it, though she says she tries :)
Idk I geuss initiate it.
Haha
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, TN, US | Jul 24, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, TN, US | Jul 24, 2012
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We both like to. It's kind of a problem because we both want to start it off most of the time.
Both but i dont always feel comfortable doin it cuz i get rejected often
