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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I like to talk about it, but prefer him to initiate it.
I like when he initiates it but I have no problem getting the party started
I have no preference, sometimes I don't know if she's in the mood and vice versa. There are times when i do intiate that she is not that into it and just going through the motions. When that happens i might as well do it myself. We are always on different schedules. Who initiates shouldn't matter as long the end results are good for both of us.
Have him initiate it (:
As a man it's always great having a woman take charge and ask for what she wants... But by no means will I not do what I feel is right!
I tend to get the ball rolling most of the time....BUT I love we she starts things off!!!!!
I like her to Initiate it.
Don't know which I prefer, but she could definitely initiate more often.
I like to initiate and like for it to be initiated. And we both do, I love it!
The hottest thing in my world is when she initiates sex.
I like for him to initiate sex.
He likes it when I do & I like to initiate <3
I generally like being jumped :) But I can get proactive if I want to
It all depends on how I'm feeling if I wanna be in control or not..
I like when it's initiated, but it's always the other way around :(
